You knew I wasn't going to shy away from discussing politics for any great length of time.
Did you know politicians lie? I feel pretty confident in saying that at one time or another every politician has told a lie. The problem is, a lot of people don't know the difference between lies and spin; they cannot even differentiate between reality and the preposterous. This is why it is so very important for political leaders to rein in their "spin" if you will. Hover a little closer to reality. Not appeal to the percentage of the population that thrives on drama even when it doesn't exist.
There is caravan of migrants that has come from Central America on the way to the USA through Mexico and has been described as an angry mob of criminals that includes Middle Eastern terrorists and there have been American soldiers deployed to protect our border from invasion.
Really??? So someone who is from Saudi Arabia or Yemen, or Iran or anywhere in the Middle East has flown to Honduras or Guatemala and has decided to WALK through Mexico for more than a thousand miles to cross the American border and terrorize Americans.
Stop and read that last paragraph again. Does it sound as stupid in your head as it did in mine as I typed it?
If you have been following along with the news...and no, not all news is true. However, not all news that goes against what the guy living in the White House says and believes is false. And it's not false just because he doesn't like it.
It's up to you and me and the farmer in central Iowa and the lawyer in midtown Manhattan and the stay at home Mom in a suburb of Denver and the millennial working in Silicon Valley and the Operation Enduring Freedom veteran hanging on by a thread in a struggle with PTSD and EVERY OTHER AMERICAN to figure what is true and what is false.
So let's see if I can help.
There are indeed migrants moving through Mexico, on foot and while I cannot speak for each and every one of them, most of them are women and children leaving their home country because of violence to them or family members. Is everyone of them a model citizen by any country's standards? Probably not. Is it necessary to have thousands of troops at the border to stop the INVASION? Again probably not. These people are looking for a safe place to live. Is America the answer? Maybe. Should they all be allowed in? Yes, that is what this country stands for...you know...give me your tired and your poor, yearning to live free.... Should they all be allowed in illegally with no vetting and no rules and regulations? No. Are they going to take your job? I cannot answer that question. Although I would venture a guess that many of them if allowed to come here would be taking entry level positions or menial positions that many Americans would think beneath them.
Let's move on shall we...there's an ad about an illegal immigrant who went on a drug fueled rampage and killed some sheriff's deputies in CA in 2014. The ad was released by the guy in the white house and blames the Democrats for letting the guy into the country and letting him stay. What the ad fails to mention is that the person profiled in the ad was in fact arrested in Arizona in 1998 by Joe Arpaio and deported. He then returned to the US sometime between May of 2001 and Feb 2002. If you Google...you will see the president in that time frame was a republican, the senate had a democratic majority and the house had a republican majority. I guarantee the criminal profiled in the ad wasn't on the radar of any of them. This particular spin is simply bullshit. Except many people who follow the guy in the White House BELIEVE said bullshit because the guy in the White House said it. In the history of the United States, it has NEVER been easier to be informed. And yet, people choose NOT to be informed.
Now let's talk about people born on US soil. The 14th Amendment to the Constitution states that those born in the US are by definition US citizens. The guy living in the White House thinks he can make that go away with an executive order. Yeah, he can't. A good number of the people in this country have taken a class or two on the Constitution. If you want to amend the Constitution, it’s a 2/3 majority in both houses of Congress and 3/4 of state legislatures need to ratify it. Good luck with that. You cannot get members of the House and the Senate to agree on the color of the sky on a cloudless day.
For those of you that take the guy in the White House at his word, you’re foolish. Many days when he (or Sarah Huckabee) speaks, I don’t even need Google to prove him (or her) wrong. Basic knowledge and common sense tell me so. It’s telling you so too. The guy in the White House knows he is lying. It is all very calculated.
I will be the first to admit that I don’t believe anything a politician tells me, doesn’t matter the party. I can research and am in tune with the political leanings of the sources I believe or ignore. I also believe that good wins out over evil every time so this current regime will end soon. I know what side of history I will be on when that happens.
Friday, November 2, 2018
4 more years
4 more years, 4 more years, 4 more years!
Ha, it's not what you think.
I was sitting in my oncologist's office the other days and he said, "You're closing in on 4 years cancer free." For a moment I was stunned. Now don't get me wrong...I know exactly when I was diagnosed and exactly the moment when my oncologist told me I was cancer free. I can tell you what I was wearing, what the weather was like and who was with me each time. It's just that the almost 4 years has passed in the blink of an eye.
Do you remember when you were a kid and Thanksgiving would come and you'd be all excited because that meant that Christmas was "right around the corner". Then time would grind to a halt as you not so patiently waited for Santa to arrive.
As I have gotten older, Thanksgiving approaches and Christmas is indeed "right around the corner" And it is barreling down upon me (and every other adult) like a freight train!!! I know understand fully why my parents looked so harried in the time between Thanksgiving and Christmas.
So with lymphoma, each year cancer free lessens the risk of recurrence. So it's entirely possible I will go through the rest of my life silently chanting "4 more years, 4 more years, 4 more years!"
Ha, it's not what you think.
I was sitting in my oncologist's office the other days and he said, "You're closing in on 4 years cancer free." For a moment I was stunned. Now don't get me wrong...I know exactly when I was diagnosed and exactly the moment when my oncologist told me I was cancer free. I can tell you what I was wearing, what the weather was like and who was with me each time. It's just that the almost 4 years has passed in the blink of an eye.
Do you remember when you were a kid and Thanksgiving would come and you'd be all excited because that meant that Christmas was "right around the corner". Then time would grind to a halt as you not so patiently waited for Santa to arrive.
As I have gotten older, Thanksgiving approaches and Christmas is indeed "right around the corner" And it is barreling down upon me (and every other adult) like a freight train!!! I know understand fully why my parents looked so harried in the time between Thanksgiving and Christmas.
So with lymphoma, each year cancer free lessens the risk of recurrence. So it's entirely possible I will go through the rest of my life silently chanting "4 more years, 4 more years, 4 more years!"
Friday, September 28, 2018
Thats What We’ve Become
So I have a few things on my mind. I know, shocking, right?
I started this blog as a way to process my cancer battle and the aftermath. Writing has always been a hobby of mine, a release if you will. A stress reliever. This week has been particularly stressful.
To the best of my knowledge I am cancer free...my oncologist will send me a postcard soon to remind me that I need to stop in, and give some blood to confirm that.
That’s not what I want to talk about though.
I always try to work through things with a certain amount of grace and humor. I am not a perfect person...I have been known to fail in the grace department and rely on humor. This week...the humor went out the window for a while as well.
People in America have lost their damn minds.
I have had many people argue with me this week about Brett Kavanaugh. I can see differences of opinions about this absolutely. I think I have been clear about how I feel about the situation. The constant conversation about his confirmation hearing, Dr Ford’s testimony, and when a sexual abuse victim should speak up about it has triggered some rather unpleasant memories for me and I am sure millions of others.
Innocent until proven guilty...
The democrats should have...
A conspiracy
A smear campaign
Anyone is capable of lying and when pressed further, someone said their daughter was capable of lying when I asked them if their reaction would change if the accuser was their daughter.
Not one person arguing with me spoke to Judge Kavanaugh’s record; why he would make an exceptional Supreme Court Justice. They were too busy telling me how and why I was wrong.
That’s what we’ve become.
Someone even went so far as to say that he hoped Judge Kavanaugh would remember how the Democrats treated him during the confirmation process or some such nonsense. I am paraphrasing it mostly because I was so incredulous reading it that I didn’t screen shot it so I could quote it.
That’s what we’ve become.
So here’s the thing...we need to table the innocent until proven guilty until we are discussing a criminal complaint. We’re not there yet and we may never get there.
Senator Feinstein was keeping Dr Ford’s confidence...right or wrong, that is what she said she was doing. I don’t have reason to think she is lying any more or any less than anybody else on that committee.
Conspiracy and smear campaign...sorry, not buying it and have seen ZERO evidence of it.
Here is what I do know...Dr Ford has had to leave her job and her home for this, she has received death threats. She recounted an incredibly painful occurrence in her life in front of the Senate Judiciary Committee and however many people that watched the coverage. She appeared composed and credible. Judge Kavanaugh came of as petulant and unhinged; some sort of victim of a conspiracy.
For the record...I only saw news clips, I couldn’t bear to listen to it live.
The Supreme Court is supposed to be non partisan. Our political leaders are so caught up in the power of their positions that EVERYTHING has become partisan. They’re not serving their constituents, they’re working on their campaign for the next election. They are bought and paid for by special interest groups. It’s disgusting.
That’s what we’ve become.
It’s too soon to tell what the future holds....something has to give though.
I started this blog as a way to process my cancer battle and the aftermath. Writing has always been a hobby of mine, a release if you will. A stress reliever. This week has been particularly stressful.
To the best of my knowledge I am cancer free...my oncologist will send me a postcard soon to remind me that I need to stop in, and give some blood to confirm that.
That’s not what I want to talk about though.
I always try to work through things with a certain amount of grace and humor. I am not a perfect person...I have been known to fail in the grace department and rely on humor. This week...the humor went out the window for a while as well.
People in America have lost their damn minds.
I have had many people argue with me this week about Brett Kavanaugh. I can see differences of opinions about this absolutely. I think I have been clear about how I feel about the situation. The constant conversation about his confirmation hearing, Dr Ford’s testimony, and when a sexual abuse victim should speak up about it has triggered some rather unpleasant memories for me and I am sure millions of others.
Innocent until proven guilty...
The democrats should have...
A conspiracy
A smear campaign
Anyone is capable of lying and when pressed further, someone said their daughter was capable of lying when I asked them if their reaction would change if the accuser was their daughter.
Not one person arguing with me spoke to Judge Kavanaugh’s record; why he would make an exceptional Supreme Court Justice. They were too busy telling me how and why I was wrong.
That’s what we’ve become.
Someone even went so far as to say that he hoped Judge Kavanaugh would remember how the Democrats treated him during the confirmation process or some such nonsense. I am paraphrasing it mostly because I was so incredulous reading it that I didn’t screen shot it so I could quote it.
That’s what we’ve become.
So here’s the thing...we need to table the innocent until proven guilty until we are discussing a criminal complaint. We’re not there yet and we may never get there.
Senator Feinstein was keeping Dr Ford’s confidence...right or wrong, that is what she said she was doing. I don’t have reason to think she is lying any more or any less than anybody else on that committee.
Conspiracy and smear campaign...sorry, not buying it and have seen ZERO evidence of it.
Here is what I do know...Dr Ford has had to leave her job and her home for this, she has received death threats. She recounted an incredibly painful occurrence in her life in front of the Senate Judiciary Committee and however many people that watched the coverage. She appeared composed and credible. Judge Kavanaugh came of as petulant and unhinged; some sort of victim of a conspiracy.
For the record...I only saw news clips, I couldn’t bear to listen to it live.
The Supreme Court is supposed to be non partisan. Our political leaders are so caught up in the power of their positions that EVERYTHING has become partisan. They’re not serving their constituents, they’re working on their campaign for the next election. They are bought and paid for by special interest groups. It’s disgusting.
That’s what we’ve become.
It’s too soon to tell what the future holds....something has to give though.
Thursday, September 20, 2018
The Right Thing to Do
Brett Kavanaugh should withdrawn his name for the Supreme Court. PERIOD
This isn't about party. It isn't about 45. It's about doing what is right. I realize that is a foreign concept in this country these days; especially at the highest levels of government.
The hypocrisy of members of the Senate is laughable. Let's not consider the nomination of Merrick Garland because a year from now Barack Obama won't be president anymore but let's rush through Brett Kavanaugh well, because he's a smart guy to paraphrase the guy who nominated him.
Seriously--is this what we've become? Different political parties so HELL BENT on being in power that they resort to this BULLSHIT.
I know, I know, why didn't she come forward sooner??? That's really not for me (or anyone else) to comment on.
Have you ever been sexually assaulted? Did you report it? Were you believed? Did you feel judged? Did you carry it with you every day after? Did it affect relationships?
Brett Kavanaugh categorically denies Christine Blasey Ford's accusations. From what I have heard and read, perhaps it's because he doesn't remember. Apparently there was a lot of teenage drinking and partying at prep school back in the day. REGARDLESS of what he remembers, his accuser remembers and really that is all that matters.
Yes, I drank when I was a teenager, yes, I did things I shouldn't. My reputation isn't on display. I am not nominated for the Supreme Court. Sorry if you have skeletons in your closet, you should not be a candidate for the Supreme Court.
We'll see what happens on Monday and in the days to follow. I have an idea and I hope I am wrong.
I hope Brett Kavanaugh does what is right. He has two daughters. I'd be interested to hear his thoughts on how he would feel if a drunk prep school student pinned one of his daughters down and groped her. My guess is, he'd be pretty angry.
We as a country need to do some serious soul searching if our elected officials think it's OK to rush this nomination through. Yes, the FBI should investigate this and no, they shouldn't have to wait for 45 to give the order. No one is above reproach. NO ONE.
No one with a daughter (or a conscience) should be for the confirmation of this man.
And to the evangelical leaders that are urging the GOP to push this nomination through...take a step back. We hear so much about your religious rights, blah blah blah. Think about what you would do if Christine Blasey Ford was your daughter. You don't get to push your religious beliefs on the rest of the world while you do whatever you please in your own life. You don't get to thump your bible in one hand and oppress non religious people with the other. You don't get to pick and choose when something is right or wrong for your own benefits. That's not how it works.
Everyone eligible needs to vote, this November and for every election going forward. If you don't like what your elected officials are doing CHANGE THEM. They are not entitled to the job they hold.
WE THE PEOPLE vote them in AND out.
Members of the Senate and House of Representatives...you better figure out what side of history you want to land on. I wouldn't want to stand with the guy in the white house...he stinks, as do most of those he has hired and surrounded himself with. Don't be complicit.
This isn't about party. It isn't about 45. It's about doing what is right. I realize that is a foreign concept in this country these days; especially at the highest levels of government.
The hypocrisy of members of the Senate is laughable. Let's not consider the nomination of Merrick Garland because a year from now Barack Obama won't be president anymore but let's rush through Brett Kavanaugh well, because he's a smart guy to paraphrase the guy who nominated him.
Seriously--is this what we've become? Different political parties so HELL BENT on being in power that they resort to this BULLSHIT.
I know, I know, why didn't she come forward sooner??? That's really not for me (or anyone else) to comment on.
Have you ever been sexually assaulted? Did you report it? Were you believed? Did you feel judged? Did you carry it with you every day after? Did it affect relationships?
Brett Kavanaugh categorically denies Christine Blasey Ford's accusations. From what I have heard and read, perhaps it's because he doesn't remember. Apparently there was a lot of teenage drinking and partying at prep school back in the day. REGARDLESS of what he remembers, his accuser remembers and really that is all that matters.
Yes, I drank when I was a teenager, yes, I did things I shouldn't. My reputation isn't on display. I am not nominated for the Supreme Court. Sorry if you have skeletons in your closet, you should not be a candidate for the Supreme Court.
We'll see what happens on Monday and in the days to follow. I have an idea and I hope I am wrong.
I hope Brett Kavanaugh does what is right. He has two daughters. I'd be interested to hear his thoughts on how he would feel if a drunk prep school student pinned one of his daughters down and groped her. My guess is, he'd be pretty angry.
We as a country need to do some serious soul searching if our elected officials think it's OK to rush this nomination through. Yes, the FBI should investigate this and no, they shouldn't have to wait for 45 to give the order. No one is above reproach. NO ONE.
No one with a daughter (or a conscience) should be for the confirmation of this man.
And to the evangelical leaders that are urging the GOP to push this nomination through...take a step back. We hear so much about your religious rights, blah blah blah. Think about what you would do if Christine Blasey Ford was your daughter. You don't get to push your religious beliefs on the rest of the world while you do whatever you please in your own life. You don't get to thump your bible in one hand and oppress non religious people with the other. You don't get to pick and choose when something is right or wrong for your own benefits. That's not how it works.
Everyone eligible needs to vote, this November and for every election going forward. If you don't like what your elected officials are doing CHANGE THEM. They are not entitled to the job they hold.
WE THE PEOPLE vote them in AND out.
Members of the Senate and House of Representatives...you better figure out what side of history you want to land on. I wouldn't want to stand with the guy in the white house...he stinks, as do most of those he has hired and surrounded himself with. Don't be complicit.
Thursday, September 6, 2018
It doesn’t affect MY life...
Families separated at the border
Basic healthcare is a luxury for some
Racism
Mass shootings
I could go on and on.
Some people’s response to the above is...it doesn’t affect MY life.
Oh, but it does.
I cannot begin to describe how disappointed I am in some people. Too many people think that because it isn’t happening to them personally, that they don’t need to be involved. That is how we got a reality “star” elected president. Well that and the archaic electoral college, but that is another blog post entirely.
This isn’t a blog post about political leanings or parties. It’s about right and wrong.
You know, I used to think LeBron James was a pompous ass. Everyone remembers the big prime time announcement on ESPN when he decided to sign with Miami. Well..basketball fans do. The city of Cleveland was quicker to forgive him than I was. Now he is giving back. He can afford to send his kids to the finest schools...poor school systems don’t affect his life. That doesn’t stop him from trying to make a change. People also have criticized him for speaking out against the current administration. I struggle with this. Should he just play basketball? Or should he be an example for kids that are watching. Of course he should do both. I think some of those criticisms come from people who are pissed that a black man would speak out that way. LeBron James’ view is no more or less important than anyone else’s. I give him credit for speaking up.
Those who criticize don’t get to dictate what he stands for, or what his truth is. Your opinion of it, tells the story of who YOU are.
If you have your panties in a twist about Colin Kaepernick kneeling for the anthem, let me ask you...would you be so irate if Tom Brady had been the first to kneel? Maybe Tom isn’t the best example because his GOAT status would give him a pass on some things. How about Blake Bortles?
I am sure the first time Colin Kaepernick knelt, he had no idea the firestorm he was unleashing. He was, however clear in the statement he was making; what he was speaking out against. Maybe he was affected by racism directly, maybe not. He was after he knelt. You can agree with him or not, however if you’re boycotting the NFL or Nike; that tells a story about YOU. I can also assure you that the NFL and Nike don’t care and neither are going away.
If you’re reading this and you don’t know me, I am white. I live a suburban middle class life. Racism is alive and well in America; hell, it’s encouraged by the current leader of the free world. I have seen racism negatively affect people I care about. I have also seen people I care about spout dispicable things about other races. They have said Colin Kaepernick has no right...
NO, in this country, he has EVERY right.
So last night...45 was blathering on about how the New York Times (it’s not failing, by the way) should “out” the anonymous op-ed author “for national security”. When I stopped laughing, I realized how desperate he sounds. This putz got elected because too many people thought Hillary’s emails were somehow worse than, sexual assault against women, a complete lack of any ethics or morals, Russian interference in the election...how much time do you have? Now some of you are thinking...well, that didn’t have an affect on MY life.
Oh, but it does.
Friday, August 10, 2018
It Happened So Fast
Two weeks ago I was in a pretty serious automobile accident. Totaled my car on a street near my house. I wasn't going more than 10 miles an hour when I was hit...or maybe I hit him. It happened so fast I am not really sure who hit who first; let's just say our cars met at some point.
I have been driving since 1987...I realize I am dating myself now but I also realize how lucky I am that this was my first serious accident. I am also saying a quick prayer than I haven't just jinxed myself by typing that out loud.
It happened so fast.
I was headed to the chiropracter (ironic, right?). Got to a stop sign, stopped and looked to my left and right. I was going to turn left. When I looked left and right, I didn't see any cars, so I went. There was a car coming from the left that I didn't see, there were parked cars blocking my view.
You know how when you see something shocking, your brain says, "What the hell?!!?" It happened so fast, my brain could only muster "What the?!!?" then BAM! Did you know that airbags deploy in a fraction of a second? And they smoke? Trust me when I tell you, you don't need to experience the deployment of airbags. Did you know that seatbelts lock on impact in order to keep what they are holding from flying around the inside of the car? And they leave the most spectacular bruises. Shades of purple I have never seen before.
It happened so fast.
I drove a Hyundai Sonata--her name was Stella (yes, I name my cars). I cannot say enough about airbag technology. I was basically encased in airbags when my car came to rest up over the curb on the other side of the street I was trying to turn onto. Did you know I am claustrophobic? I didn't know how claustrophobic until I was encased in airbags.
The entire front end of my car shattered...they're mostly made of plastic these days, designed to break up on impact and absorb the force of the crash. Did I mention I wasn't going that fast? There was actually a piece of styrofoam behind my front bumper that helped absorb the impact of a crash.
It happened so fast.
I live in a town that is basically bisected by a set of railroad tracks. I live on one side, my chiropractor is on the other. I purposefully leave 30 minutes before my appointment which is 7 minutes away so that I don't have to rush. I wasn't on the phone...I was just singing with the radio as I am known to do...Ed Sheeran-The Shape of You. I've been turning it off since the accident, it makes me anxious. The type A in me keeps trying to figure it out, why didn't I see the other car? It happened so fast.
2 weeks out and I am less terrified when I drive. I haven't traveled the accident route yet, and I might not again. I lean a little to the right in the driver's seat and I drive on the right side of my lane...hopefully that will ease over time. I am grateful that bruises fade and aches and pains subside eventually (hopefully soon). I am grateful that with the exception of the night of the crash, I am sleeping OK; stress for me often manifests in insomnia.
It happened so fast.
I am getting a new car in the next couple of days...wish I could say I was excited about it. Tossing around Chloe, Tess, and Trudy for names...I'll know when I see it. Edited to add...bought a 2018 Hyundai Kona...her name is Ruby.
It's ironic to me that something that happened so fast will more than likely haunt me forever.
I have been driving since 1987...I realize I am dating myself now but I also realize how lucky I am that this was my first serious accident. I am also saying a quick prayer than I haven't just jinxed myself by typing that out loud.
It happened so fast.
I was headed to the chiropracter (ironic, right?). Got to a stop sign, stopped and looked to my left and right. I was going to turn left. When I looked left and right, I didn't see any cars, so I went. There was a car coming from the left that I didn't see, there were parked cars blocking my view.
You know how when you see something shocking, your brain says, "What the hell?!!?" It happened so fast, my brain could only muster "What the?!!?" then BAM! Did you know that airbags deploy in a fraction of a second? And they smoke? Trust me when I tell you, you don't need to experience the deployment of airbags. Did you know that seatbelts lock on impact in order to keep what they are holding from flying around the inside of the car? And they leave the most spectacular bruises. Shades of purple I have never seen before.
It happened so fast.
I drove a Hyundai Sonata--her name was Stella (yes, I name my cars). I cannot say enough about airbag technology. I was basically encased in airbags when my car came to rest up over the curb on the other side of the street I was trying to turn onto. Did you know I am claustrophobic? I didn't know how claustrophobic until I was encased in airbags.
The entire front end of my car shattered...they're mostly made of plastic these days, designed to break up on impact and absorb the force of the crash. Did I mention I wasn't going that fast? There was actually a piece of styrofoam behind my front bumper that helped absorb the impact of a crash.
It happened so fast.
I live in a town that is basically bisected by a set of railroad tracks. I live on one side, my chiropractor is on the other. I purposefully leave 30 minutes before my appointment which is 7 minutes away so that I don't have to rush. I wasn't on the phone...I was just singing with the radio as I am known to do...Ed Sheeran-The Shape of You. I've been turning it off since the accident, it makes me anxious. The type A in me keeps trying to figure it out, why didn't I see the other car? It happened so fast.
2 weeks out and I am less terrified when I drive. I haven't traveled the accident route yet, and I might not again. I lean a little to the right in the driver's seat and I drive on the right side of my lane...hopefully that will ease over time. I am grateful that bruises fade and aches and pains subside eventually (hopefully soon). I am grateful that with the exception of the night of the crash, I am sleeping OK; stress for me often manifests in insomnia.
It happened so fast.
I am getting a new car in the next couple of days...wish I could say I was excited about it. Tossing around Chloe, Tess, and Trudy for names...I'll know when I see it. Edited to add...bought a 2018 Hyundai Kona...her name is Ruby.
It's ironic to me that something that happened so fast will more than likely haunt me forever.
Tuesday, July 3, 2018
Better
I participated in the March for Families on Saturday June 30th. I continue to be appalled at the fact that the greatest country in the world is keeping children in cages while they sort out the fate of the children's parents. I am not going to engage in the right and wrong of coming to the USA illegally. I cannot possibly understand having to leave my home country because of persecution (yet).
I call the USA the greatest country in the world with a certain amount of skepticism these days. Until recently, I have always had a feeling that while America was great, we were always striving to be better. Better for everyone.
Not just for the rich, or the white, or the Christians, or the straight.
EVERYONE; even if they weren't born here.
You're lucky if you were born here but unless you are a Native American, you have ancestors that were not born here. Maybe they came here fleeing persecution, or famine, or disease or poverty. Maybe they came with hopes and dreams. Maybe they came with nothing but what they could carry in a small case. Regardless of the circumstances, they arrived and made a life here. I am not going to split hairs on whether it was legally or illegally. Honestly, it matters very little unless they were criminals. That is what is awesome about this country; you can come here with very little and with hard work you can live your dreams.
The other day someone I know who claims to be a conservative Christian posted regarding the separation of families at the border. I am not going to go into what was posted but let's just say, they are not as good a Christian as they think they are. But, part of what they posted struck me and I thought of it again when we were marching.
We need to do better taking care of our own. We have people who have lived in this country for years who are homeless, mentally ill, maybe both and we don't take good enough care of them. Healthcare is expensive, terms like mentally ill have a stigma attached. There are people who have physical illnesses that keep them from holding a full time job. Doctors have to pay huge amounts for malpractice insurance and in turn charge huge amounts to provide care. Insurance companies charge huge amounts to help defray medical costs and the cycle goes on and on.
America can do better.
While we marched Saturday, I saw a man sleeping on a bus stop bench in an overcoat; I am going to venture a guess that he was homeless. It was 94 degrees with a heat index of 108. He was probably wearing it so that a belonging of his wasn't stolen while he slept.
I saw the irony in my marching for families at the border and at the same time wondered, who marches for the homeless? Who marches for veterans? Who marches for abused children? Who marches for the environment? Why do we need to march for these things? Why aren't we constantly striving to make things better?
There are so many things that America can do better. Our elected officials are so busy trying to get re-elected, they have NO CLUE what is happening in this country or they don't care. They are so busy blaming the last guy or gal that held the office that they are completely ineffective in serving their constituents.
The gap between the haves and have nots widens daily. The tax breaks from earlier this year were supposed to help fix that. Guess what, big companies are buying up their own stock rather than passing on the savings to their employees by raising salaries. No one should be surprised by this. Trickle down economics didn't work back when Ronald Reagan thought it was a good idea.
America can do better. America needs to do better.
FYI--to the people saying illegals are "stealing your jobs". Most illegals come to this country and do jobs that the people who do the loudest bitching wouldn't stoop to do.
America is a great country...we didn't need a reality star in the white house to make it so...not going to go into what he has done to sabotage its greatness.
But we can be better, stronger, more inclusive, kinder, more diverse....and on and on.
We can do better.
I hope I post a year from now and things are different.
Time will tell.
I call the USA the greatest country in the world with a certain amount of skepticism these days. Until recently, I have always had a feeling that while America was great, we were always striving to be better. Better for everyone.
Not just for the rich, or the white, or the Christians, or the straight.
EVERYONE; even if they weren't born here.
You're lucky if you were born here but unless you are a Native American, you have ancestors that were not born here. Maybe they came here fleeing persecution, or famine, or disease or poverty. Maybe they came with hopes and dreams. Maybe they came with nothing but what they could carry in a small case. Regardless of the circumstances, they arrived and made a life here. I am not going to split hairs on whether it was legally or illegally. Honestly, it matters very little unless they were criminals. That is what is awesome about this country; you can come here with very little and with hard work you can live your dreams.
The other day someone I know who claims to be a conservative Christian posted regarding the separation of families at the border. I am not going to go into what was posted but let's just say, they are not as good a Christian as they think they are. But, part of what they posted struck me and I thought of it again when we were marching.
We need to do better taking care of our own. We have people who have lived in this country for years who are homeless, mentally ill, maybe both and we don't take good enough care of them. Healthcare is expensive, terms like mentally ill have a stigma attached. There are people who have physical illnesses that keep them from holding a full time job. Doctors have to pay huge amounts for malpractice insurance and in turn charge huge amounts to provide care. Insurance companies charge huge amounts to help defray medical costs and the cycle goes on and on.
America can do better.
While we marched Saturday, I saw a man sleeping on a bus stop bench in an overcoat; I am going to venture a guess that he was homeless. It was 94 degrees with a heat index of 108. He was probably wearing it so that a belonging of his wasn't stolen while he slept.
I saw the irony in my marching for families at the border and at the same time wondered, who marches for the homeless? Who marches for veterans? Who marches for abused children? Who marches for the environment? Why do we need to march for these things? Why aren't we constantly striving to make things better?
There are so many things that America can do better. Our elected officials are so busy trying to get re-elected, they have NO CLUE what is happening in this country or they don't care. They are so busy blaming the last guy or gal that held the office that they are completely ineffective in serving their constituents.
The gap between the haves and have nots widens daily. The tax breaks from earlier this year were supposed to help fix that. Guess what, big companies are buying up their own stock rather than passing on the savings to their employees by raising salaries. No one should be surprised by this. Trickle down economics didn't work back when Ronald Reagan thought it was a good idea.
America can do better. America needs to do better.
FYI--to the people saying illegals are "stealing your jobs". Most illegals come to this country and do jobs that the people who do the loudest bitching wouldn't stoop to do.
America is a great country...we didn't need a reality star in the white house to make it so...not going to go into what he has done to sabotage its greatness.
But we can be better, stronger, more inclusive, kinder, more diverse....and on and on.
We can do better.
I hope I post a year from now and things are different.
Time will tell.
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